Saturday, December 13, 2008

Happy Birthday Lavonda! (for Dec.7)


(The following is written by Lavonda Upchurch.) -

We have all heard the phrase, because I have been given so much, I too must give. This Christmas season, for me has been different, hazzy even... feeling sluggish, strange... just not warm and exciting. Mainly because of all the changes at work and with the country and work is slow which hurts the bank account. I have been waiting, just hoping something would get me into the mood. And then... it began on Sunday, It was my birthday and I was home alone with my children for the most part of the day. Which is different form all my other birthdays where it was all about me and what others have planned for me and done for me and or bought for me. I was there in my home with my two boys, no birthday cards or cake or presents. John was out of town, I remember when I woke up Jacob and Hunter both wanted to hug and kiss me before they jumped out of bed to begin their day of playing. I remember when I heard and saw them giggling and chasing each other on the bed, and smiling at me so big like they had just won the lottery, just because I walked in the room.... it was there - right in that moment that I knew I had everything I ever wanted right in front of me. Their silly warm giggles was the best "birthday card" I had ever recieved. Although my sappiness reminded me I was a year older, I am grateful I was able to recognize the bliss of my boys, and begin to feel the spirit. I have been given so much, a wonderful man for a husband, Nevaeh, Jacob and Hunter and caring friends & a great job. I will be looking for ways I can give back because the feeling I got yesterday left an impression on my heart
Merry Christmas, and may you know and feel the spirit now and always.
LaVonda Upchurch

1 comment:

Kathy said...

Lavonda,
Happy late birthday. I am so sorry things have been unusually busy around here.

Your note touched me so much. It is amazing that you can see your blessings. You are such a great example for me. Thank you!